Published on May 10, 2016 Greenbarge Reporters
A 44-year-old woman, Susan Lijadu, has told a Lagos Island Customary Court, how her husband, Folarin forced her to make an oath, using all sort of fetish things, that she would never sleep with other men until death do them part.
Susan, who is seeking for dissolution of a 20-year-old marriage for alleged lack of trust and love said that their marital problem started in year 2000 when her husband became blind as a result of a motor accident.
Susan, a mother of four, told the court that her husband became suicidal, aggressive and very jealous and in 2013 he forced her into making a covenant with him.
“Since he became blind everything about him has changed. He once tried to kill himself but I pleaded with him and assured him that everything will be well. He also became aggressive toward me and one day he nearly strangled me to death and if not for our neighbours who came to my rescue I would have been dead.
“Three years ago he ordered me to buy a cockerel, three cola nuts, bitter cola and alligator pepper. I was stripped naked in the presence of one herbalist from Ondo State.
“I was told to swear that no other man will ever see my nakedness or have any sexual intercourse with me except my husband. All the items were buried in a hole dug in front of our room.”
Susan told the court that her husband, who did not make the same covenant with her, had now impregnated one of their tenants and wants to divorce her.
“My husband wants to dump me after putting an embargo on me,’’ she said.
Folarin denied forcing his wife to swear an oath, adding that she was the one who urged him to make her take the oath and that he did not swear with her.
He said that he filed for the dissolution of their marriage when he could not control her.
“When I became incapacitated, I sent my wife to computer school and opened a shop for her to enable her take care of the home financially. She stopped going to shop and started selling petrol at the junction of our house which I did not support.
“During one of our arguments in December 2015, she bathed me with kerosene and threatened to set me ablaze.
“I did not impregnate our tenant; I am not interested in the marriage again. I want a divorce,’’ Folarin said.
The Court President, Mr Awos Awoshola, reprimanded them on the oath taking.
“No one can predict what will happen tomorrow, we humans are always changing. We want something today, that thing might become what we detest tomorrow,” Awoshola said.
Awoshola added that before the court could dissolve the marriage, the covenant must be broken and that the two parties must provide evidence that the oath had been revoked.
He ordered both parties to maintain peace and adjourned the case to May 24 for further hearing.
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